To a small child, the
summertime vacation is a hastily-fleeting affair - at least so
it seemed to me - a youth of seven back in August of 1960. I had
just completed the first grade and although I was looking forward
to resuming my studies in only a matter of a few weeks, I was
in no great hurry for those leisurely warm days to come to any
abrupt finale. Over the years that would ensue, as I progressed
through my formal education, I can now think back to those carefree
days and those many summer vacations. Those last few days immediately
before the return to school - counting backwards, "only six
more days "off before I have to go back; only five more days
..." you get the idea!
I was born and raised in Brooklyn, not a far distance from the
famous beaches of Coney Island and, indeed, on many occasions
my parents would take their prodigy to spend a few summer hours
on the shores of the Atlantic. As I was to discover in later life,
if you really expect to have a good time, you need to include
"someone special" to share those moments with you. Certainly
my parents performed their duties towards me as best they knew
how (or were able) but they most definitely were not
ranked very high on my personal list of preferred playmates. Of
course, I did have an older brother (by twelve years) but he was
away at college and well "out of the house" by now and
I only saw him on rare occasions. Even though he was truly my
brother, my own "flesh and blood" I had more in common
with the boy who lived next door - for at least my neighbor shared
my childhood interests.
So, it was a special "treat" for me on a Sunday morning
back in mid August of 1960 - we were going to travel out to Rockaway
Beach to spend the day with my aunt and uncle and my cousin, Sam,
a lad only fourteen months older than I.
My aunt and uncle (my father's oldest brother) had been renting
a bungalow in the area of Beach 29th Street in the Far Rockaway/Edgemere
section of the Borough of Queens. I remember the "wooden
shack" being about three huts away from a large boardwalk
- a four-room temporary abode on the east side of a paved but
extremely sandy street. There was no access to the boardwalk from
that particular street; the entrance ramp was about four or five
blocks away - but it really didn't matter all that much. We were
visiting that day to take advantage of the lovely white sand and
cool water so all we really had to do was to walk southward to
the end of the road and then cross underneath the wooden walkway
and - instant beach!
Once our car arrived at the designated target (Uncle Billy's bungalow)
our family of three disembarked only to be embraced by such close
and loving relatives. Neither Sam nor I would waste the time with
such formalities (eww — hugs and kisses!) and in
only a matter of minutes, we had both donned bathing trunks and
were headed off to frolic in the surf. Adult supervision apparently
was not as pressing an issue fifty years ago for I recall that
almost an hour had gone by before I noticed the four adults sitting
on a beach blanket - engaged in conversation. But I just knew
they were keeping "gentle watch" on their valuable offspring.
It proved to be a marvelous day - simply super! I did not want
it to end. Sam and I had built a sand fort, created a neat moat,
and thinking back, I wonder why the two of us did not simply "burn
away" in that hot summer sun.
My cousin and I had gotten along so well - we were perfect as
age mates, relatives, and as friends. When my folks announced
they were getting ready to "pack up" the car and leave,
not wanting that day to come to an end, I pleaded with them to
"leave me behind" - I wanted to stay on with my cousin
and extend my Rockaway vacation. After much discussion, my aunt
and uncle agreed that "it wouldn't be too much" of an
imposition for me to stay on with them for another few days, possibly
the entire week. Sam and I were elated and ultimately my parents
heeded my plea and they departed for that long drive back to Brooklyn
with one less passenger in the car.
Later on in the evening (long after my parents had left) my aunt
and uncle decided that the four of us would walk the few blocks
to the nearest ramp, for we were to have our dinner at one of
the many food concession stands lining the north side of the boardwalk.
We dined on hot dogs served in paper sleeves, French fries delivered
in small cardboard baskets, and soda pop contained in real-waxed
drinking cups.
After completing our "paper banquet" it was decided
we would take a stroll on the boardwalk. Of course, Sam and I
ran ahead and "discovered" a group of concessions -
the ones featuring coin-operated novelties almost immediately
caught our attention. By the time Sam's parents "caught up"
with us, we were firmly ensconced in a large wooden amusement
building - talking inventory of the many exciting offerings.